Meet people while keeping your boundaries
Staying Safe on ImSer
Meeting someone new takes trust, but there is no need to rush. Get to know each other gradually, move at your own pace and share personal details only when you feel comfortable.
ImSer uses automated checks for profile photos and text. Unclear cases may receive additional review. These measures can help, but they cannot replace good judgment.
What ImSer does to support safer dating
We use checks on material published in profiles. Their purpose is to identify content that may break site rules, not to verify a person’s identity or guarantee that everything they say is true.
Photos
Automated screening helps identify prohibited imagery and attempts to place contact details inside photos.
Profile text
Published profile text is checked for contact details, insults and other content that may violate site rules.
Cases that need a closer look
Some unclear cases may receive additional review. Content that breaks the rules may be rejected or removed.
Keep personal details to yourself until you’re ready
You do not need to move to another app or share private details at the start. A few conversations on the site can help you decide what feels right.
- Take your time before sharing your phone number, home address, workplace or travel plans.
- Never share passwords, sign-in codes or bank details.
- Avoid suspicious links or apps that someone you have only just met asks you to install.
- If someone’s story keeps changing, ask questions or end the conversation.
If someone asks for money
Urgent requests to pay for travel, medical care, deliveries or other emergencies are a reason to slow down. Do not send money to someone you only know through messages, and keep financial information private.
Planning your first meeting
When you decide to meet, make plans that help you feel at ease and in control.
Meet in public
A café or another busy public place is a sensible starting point.
Plan your own journey
Arrange your own way to and from the meeting.
Let someone know
Tell a trusted person where you are going and who you plan to meet.
You can change your mind
You are free to leave or cancel if something does not feel right.
If someone makes you uncomfortable
You do not have to put up with insults, pressure, unwanted attention, suspicious links or requests for money. You can stop the conversation and contact support if you want to report a concern.
Describe what happened and include a link to the person’s profile if possible. Never send your password or sign-in code, even when contacting support.
What moderation cannot promise
Automated moderation can reduce the chance of prohibited material appearing, but it cannot catch every violation or prevent every attempt at deception. Checking a photo or text does not mean the person’s identity has been verified.
ImSer gives people a place to browse profiles, meet and talk. We cannot guarantee that every statement in a profile is accurate or predict anyone’s intentions or behavior outside the site.
Straight answers to common questions
Dating safety questions
Does ImSer check profile photos and text?
Yes. Automated checks are used for published profile photos and text, and some cases may need further review. These checks cannot guarantee that every violation will be caught.
Can I trust everything written in a profile?
Treat profile details as information supplied by the person, not independently verified facts. Ask questions and take your time with important decisions.
Should I move to WhatsApp or Telegram right away?
There is no need. You can keep talking on ImSer and share contact details when you feel ready.
What if someone asks me for money?
Do not send money or share payment details. End the conversation if the request seems suspicious and contact support if needed.
How do I report suspicious behavior?
Use the ImSer contact page to explain what happened. Include a link to the relevant profile if you have one, but never send passwords or sign-in codes.
Can ImSer guarantee safe dating?
No. Content checks can help spot some violations, but they do not verify every member’s identity or rule out inappropriate behavior.
Meet people on your terms
Start a conversation when it feels right
Explore profiles and look at the location, dating goals and personal details people choose to share. You decide when to say hello.
Need help? Get in touch with ImSer support. Contact support